Personality Development : Change Focus , Look For The Positive .
We should always be in search of good things .We should try to look for the positive things in the life.Instead of looking for the bad things in the people , we should try to look for positive and good things in the people .We have made our environment such that we only see the bad and negative aspect of life , that's why we have been missing the positive aspect of the life.
I would like to tell you a story .Andrew Carnegie in his early life went to America for doing some work.He started his journey from doing small work.
Some one asked him , "How you treat your colleagues and people around you".He told them his behaviour towards them was just like mining of gold.He told them as to dig out 1 ounce of gold we have to remove many tonnes of soil , but our mind is on the gold , not on the soil .Same is the case with the people , we have to find the gold(positive) out of them , not to look for the soil (bad things) .In searching this we will find tonnes of weakness and bad qualities , but our mind must be set on the positive and good qualities of the people .
As if you would say that place is heaven , people having criticizing nature would even tell you tonnes of negative things about it ........
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